There it was, me struggling to find the melody. Am I the only crusty listener that thinks the melody, most often should be heard?
Well typically (not always, but often) the melody is still *there*, it's just not being played.
That is, you should be able to think of the melody in your head, or hum/scat/sing it (not recommended in public) as the solo is going on, and it should "fit". In fact, I'd encourage it, since it makes more plain what the soloist is doing in comparison to the melody, often creating what is essentially a new melody that works in counterpoint to the unheard one.
And there's a whole continuum of soloing styles that ranges from "more or less the melody, but with variations" to "good luck guessing what song this is!", and everything in between. The melody is still lurking under it all--it just gets increasingly harder to find it, and thus more effort to keep it in your head, as you move from one end to the other. Your grandson may have been far on the one end, which is always tempting--it's almost harder to play a good simple solo than a good chaotic one.
Anyway, improvisation is
the defining characteristic of jazz. So if you're not a fan of improv, jazz probably isn't for you. Which is perfectly fine.
But it might be worth giving some solos a chance that are maybe more on "approachable" end of the spectrum. Here are some places to start, if you're interested:
* Anything by the Vince Guaraldi Trio, such as "
Cast Your Fate to the Wind" or the entire
"A Charlie Brown Christmas" album.
* Anything from Miles Davis's "Kind of Blue" album, such as most of the solos on "
Freddie Freeloader". (Although interesting to contrast Coltrane's "sheets of sound" style to everyone else's.)
* Oliver Nelson's "
Stolen Moments". The first part of Freddie Hubbard's trumpet solo could be a song on its own. And Nelson's tenor solo is one of my favorites, starting on the approachable end of the spectrum, stretching further and further away, then dashing back for a lovely tidy ending.
Any other good suggestions from fellow jazzers? Maybe some Brubeck?