Jon,
You are touching on a very delicate question for which no one person is qualified to advise without many years of personal experience. In my own case it is a very long and drawn out process. A promise of getting rid of some surplus instruments may help but do not give a fixed time scale if you really men to retain them all. Your partner will hold you to your promise if you are too clear in your "deal".
You are touching on a very delicate question for which no one person is qualified to advise without many years of personal experience. In my own case it is a very long and drawn out process. A promise of getting rid of some surplus instruments may help but do not give a fixed time scale if you really men to retain them all. Your partner will hold you to your promise if you are too clear in your "deal".