Anyanka
Prolific poster
Joolie, I also feel that while your teacher's condition is very sad, it should not stop you from fulfilling your potential. It sounds to me like you are getting more trouble than benefit - you might want to consider finding someone who will teach via Skype, and you definitely should not be wasting your time with a 12-bass. Even learning from YouTube instruction videos and books would probably be more beneficial right now.