I think that this is where playing in public parks, if thats an option in your areas, would suit perfectly.Me too Jerry. Lugging my Cordovox amp up steps to a restaurant at 16 years old is not something I want to relive. I want one gig a week at a nice outdoor patio and I do NOT want to take requests.
Small audience that is both appreciative and rarely, if ever, asks for requests, and even if they did, its no big thing to politely refuse, if you don't want to.
I was barely above 10 before I started playing publicly and 13 when I started playing in the local Beer Garden professionally (meaning getting paid and doing full sets with a band). At that age, there were few things that were more fun.